Well, as I contemplated this year’s letter in
October, I thought, nothing much to write about. Then along came
Hurricane Helene, and then shortly after, Milton. Definitely, life
changing events! So 2024 will always have a feeling of drastic
change in our memories. We’ve been blessed in so many ways,
but we have struggled, worked, thought hard, and survived. We were
thoroughly flooded up to more than a foot! Five rooms were
carpeted, and it was difficult, but necessary to get it out
immediately. Bev’s daughter and her husband were the best help, and
they got rid of the worst source of moisture and mildew—all the
carpet throughout the house. The lower part of all dry wall had to
be cut immediately to prevent the moisture also. We had
neighborhood angels arrive at doorstep to help with that for a
couple of hours. Dry weather was a major blessing, as was the very
good friend who took us in for 35 days. We are applying for her
sainthood!
Then, the restoration and insurance stuff
began. We had all the floors tiled with porcelain tile that
simulated wood, which will withstand flood waters. We
repaired/replaced drywall, and painted. Cabinets for both bathrooms
were badly damaged, and are due to be installed shortly after
Christmas. All the rest is just things. Jack did most of the
furniture moving by himself. He had to clear all rooms of
everything we owned (that also includes all hooks, nails, outlet
covers, and floor molding). We used the still shuttered lanai,
shed, trailer, both car and van, and garage as our storage places.
After 35 days, we were finally able to move into 3 rooms….kitchen
with piano, hope chest and clothing rack, our bedroom, and our bath
with destroyed cabinets…..but we were home. It was and is a
learning experience we don’t want again.
As we write this, we are gradually putting
things back, and sifting through what can go and what hasta go!
Family will be thrilled with less to get rid of in the future.
Jack’s years of continuous work at church has paid off in spades, as
we get a look at arrivals of furniture for the upcoming rummage
sale, and are able to pre-purchase and use the church truck (which
he maintains). We are going for comfort and function, not style.
We can take our time, as there is no schedule. At times, it is even
fun!
As of now (12/18/24) we have not had a check we
could cash from the insurance company for the building. We
will continue to jump through their hoops and hope eventually we
will be rightly compensated. The work had to be done!
With the help of Rob's macarame Christmas tree that I made for him
just after mine in about 1979, that he has lent me, I was stimulated
to do the whole decorating thing...boxes are empty (they were safe
and up high). Our major celebration is the candlelight Christmas Eve
service and the Christmas dinner provided by the church for the
community. Jack will work the dinner as usual. We hope all
our family and friends have a wonderful Christmas season, and will
be in touch. You all are our social life and source of continuing
joy.
We celebrated our 40th anniversary
and our 28th year here in Florida. We at 88 and 89 years are
such simple folk, and easy to please! We rejoice that we are able to
stay in our home that we have saved and love so much.
Jack keeps up with his major volunteer work at
our church with kitchen and dishwashing for Wednesday eve dinners,
Christmas dinner for over 2000, and Saturday pancake breakfasts. He
also works all year on collecting, sorting, and stashing furniture
and goods for the yearly rummage sale in February, which usually
brings in about $100,000 for our church. Bev keeps the flow of home
cooked meals, housework, financial checks and balances, and medical
information going. We make such a good team. She still watches all
the international and national skating competitions on TV, Peacock,
and Youtube. .
Bev’s
daughter Kelly, lives close by. Her husband, Victor, has
retired, but she is working as a LPN with the State of Florida in a
clinic in Northport. The day of the flood, she was was in a horrible
care accident (not her fault) and had to crawl out a rear window
that the policeman broke for her. She is struggling with neck
back and cognitive issues and not able to work or drive. She also has fragile health due to compromised
immunity, but stays strong. Their daughter, Kara, is married to Caleb Dean' and they live just a few miles north. They
have a new cavipoo. Bev's son, Rob with wife, Linda, live in
Plainville, Conn. Rob retired from The Hartford a couple years ago
and now is a tutor and teacher's aide in the school all his kids
went to. Linda is a medical tech still working in two
hospitals. Their son, Matthew was recently married in Sedona,
Ariz.to Erika, a teacher. He is a policeman in East Hartford, Conn, and
they have a lovely new home in a nearby town and a new golden
retriever. Rob's
youngest, Lauren, has graduated this year from a masters program for Occupational
Therapy, passed the registration exam and is currently working as an
OT in Boston, Mass. Eldest, Sarah, after a divorce from her husband,
Sam Coba, has moved from Boston to San Diego. Bev’s son, Larry, with Samatha, has moved from San Diego to
Lubbuck, Texas. They bought a franchise for Teapioca and are
considering another one soon. His son, Joel, is
going to college aiming for marine biology in San Diego. Jack’s daughter, Danelle, is still in SF and finding it more and more difficult to
live there as an organic person. She has several jobs and is
always busy. She packed up her mom from here in Florida and
they are currently living together. Her daughter, Dana, goes to SF State University. Darin, Jack’s son, is as elusive
as ever, but is still in the Aspen area working his remodeling and
construction, dumpster and porta-pot businesses
We so enjoy our home on the channel and a birdbath just
outside our kitchen window where we have our meals. It gives us endless
entertainment with cardinals, blue jays, mockingbirds, purple
martins, sparrows, mourning doves, red bellied and pileated
woodpeckers, and occasional indigo blue buntings, etc bathing. We
also seem to be the watering hole for geckoes, snakes and squirrels
and once in a while an eagle. We have resident bunnies
that are so cute. Each evening we watch the egrets, pelicans,
herons, ibises, whistling ducks and gulls fly down the channels to
the mangroves to spend the night. Of course, in the morning from
our bed we can watch the return at dawn. Nature sure is wonderful. We are
so happy we xeriscaped the yard years ago to have flowering bushes,
tall grasses, ferns, and other groundcovers which entice the
beautiful butterflies. We do express our thankfulness daily.
We are surprised that we do not miss ice skating, and especially
the hour trips to and from the rink. It was the right time. It was such a special skating journey we
enjoyed, loving the movement on ice to wonderful music together.
Still keep the DVDs and VHS tapes and good memories of events and
fellow skaters. Bev stays involved with a subscription to Peacock to
watch all the big skating competitions. TV does carry some
events.